Single guys DON'T EVER get married!!!

[Mohawkmike]

What does a guy have to gain by getting married?

 

[Muscle mechanic]

Same here, my shit is on table, I am not gonna sneak it. That would look like an affair or just hiding anything, hiding shit makes us think they are too!!!

Oh I heard it for long time about my "Roids"
But then I also heard this, that I look too good and nobody is as incident as I act!!!

U know I looked and said, baby u right that is what my steroids are. They my little thing I keep hidden from world. So if we all got something be grateful mine is just my roids!!!

We come a long way, we not married, I call her my wife, 10 years engaged but married.
She already said what she would do to fuck me over with house and what ever out of anger, so I said now y think I wanna be married.....

She wants to be married and i will when times are right for insurance purposes and kids but as far as it goes I am on a leash married or not.
Can't go many place but gym, thinks I am gonna leave her but really she just wants security. We been thru alot together.
Some her fault some mine. We all gotta hurt in some way for someone so find someone who has a heart and isn't too brutal. The mouth is what is worst on my end. She has a mouth and tests me to lose temper so she can say look roids. But I caught on to that one year's ago.
Today all in-laws make sure i am safe with that part.....
Anyway excuse my little rant

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Good god that sounds familiar. Me and my ex had a similar relationship

@Hevi-head thankfully things have Gotten better over the years.
We worked thru things and it all boiled down to guilt she had and was justifying it.
My gear never bothered her and never me until she had a few things to get rid of and put on table!!
It started with her wanting to lose weight going get on Adipex then a friend putting in her head it's ok to use speed, that she put up with roids.
She figure out that was not a friend, and adipex from Dr fine, but speed from friend NO!!!
This was over 6-7 years ago but it started anything else like credit card debt, lapse insurance and hiding it, those other things would come to same spot, it would be me mad about oweing money normal right!!
But instead that my gear was reason I was mad.... really huh!!???

U know what u mean. Thankfully we moved past that, and she knows it's just part of my life.
It even went as far as "me not giving it up for her"
I am who I am and finally she realized that.
A big part of it all is media and ignorant people bash us and believe we a time bomb!!! And everyone jealous that we do the hard work they think and pretend roids do it for us. And they say we can't have sex limp and have anger issues!!! Lmao!!!

We all know the drill I am sure. The thing is we don't use any drugs of mind altering class so it's different view than those who do something!!!


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[xxplosive]

How you treat others, handle your respinsibilities and your lived by morals matter, not what you use or put into your body.

Few people are capable of thinking clearly and for themselves, they allow media, peers and stereotypes to create THEIR opinions.

Ive met drug addicts that were honest, reliable and kind hearted people... Ive met people who would rarely even drink socially who are selfish, vile, abusive and miserable.

People have lost track of what qualities are important and its pathetic.

I do aas, Ive done drugs-- Ive also NEVER started a fight, never been mean unless in retaliation and never stolen from a friend or attempted to fuck someone over, let alone if they are a friend/family.

If someone cant see someone for who they are and wants to judge on stereotypes... do you really need them in your life?

 

[1977_Corvette]

All my married friends constantly berate me about not being married'yet ,( in mid 30's ) and then they BEG me to go out to the bar when they get a free night off ( i hate bars ) and i sit there for 2 hours listening to them bitch about their wife and kids and how miserable they are. They all just drool over ANY girl under 40 thats in the bar, Makes no sense. I do have a few friends that seem happily married, their lives are incredibly boring imo, work - sleep - repeat, no action, no excitment ever.

 

[Rot-Iron66]

I married my best friend 30 years ago, and glad I did. We still do everything together,I know we are the rare breed out there (very) but I would agree with the OP.
99.999% of the time I just see unhappy couples, or those that end up splitting, not worth it really...

 

[testboner]

What does a guy have to gain by getting married?

That's the trillion dollar question. If a couple is together, wants to remain together, and is happy, what is there to gain by putting state signatures on a piece of paper (inviting the fucking govt into your personal and private affairs/business)?? It doesn't grant you ownership. Honestly, I have seen so many dudes that are jealous fucks... they "feel" like if they marry, then the wife becomes their "property." That's fucking RETARDED.

 

[testboner]

14 years for me also. Like you for good and bad times. I to woualdnt want to be without her. And if I was, I'd never do it again.
But even she will admit she and all women are crazy.lol

But why the marriage? Couldn't/wouldn't you still be together regardless of state signatures on file that gives legal power over your personal and private matters??

 

[yatyas314]

its just easier if all your family has the same name, I hear you guys but I dont hear any talk about kids. I have been married once already but I can say if the right woman comes along I wouldn't be against it. but she hs to meet the criteria.be selective and dont get pressured

 

[mutant]

For me it was the idea that I was truly a part of something. Legal Proof in front of god,family and friends that we are a couple. The American dream . Now, I coualdnt tell you were my marriage certificate is. I know where my bankruptcy papers are. My second bankruptcy!

 

[mutant]

But let me say, I do love my wife! She best friend and helps me get through life daily.

 

[testboner]

For me it was the idea that I was truly a part of something. Legal Proof in front of god,family and friends that we are a couple. The American dream . Now, I coualdnt tell you were my marriage certificate is. I know where my bankruptcy papers are. My second bankruptcy!

I get it... I do. Been there done that. When it all comes down to it -- it's not God's, your Family nor Friends relationship though... it's you and your mate alone together in the most private, personal, intimate togetherness. Marriage, so far as the state is concerned, is all about placing you in a particular tax category. FUCK the state (and it's taxes), a personal and private relationship ought to remain a personal and private relationship. We don't need our family nor friends interjecting who we should or shouldn't be with... we don't need their "blessing."
Marriage is essentially a religious ritual, and an invitation for the state to decide your personal financial and property matters if/when shit goes south.... which it does 50+% of the time. Like I've said previously, if an airplane had a 50% failure rate, would you get on it so comfortably?
I'm pleased to hear you have a good relationship... but it should be the same relationship regardless of whether you had performed a ritual and had state permission and paid fees for your relationship.

 

[horsefli]

We are few and far between, to get the 30 years mark Rot, my wife and myself actually do almost everything together more like buds, from canoeing, all fishing types. shooting (got her into shooting sporting clays) and even going hunting with me. Been building hot rods since I was 15 and she loves hanging with me in the garage, Except cold morning. She's a true sun bunny, hates the cold.

 

[MotorCityMuscleMachine]

We are few and far between, to get the 30 years mark Rot, my wife and myself actually do almost everything together more like buds, from canoeing, all fishing types. shooting (got her into shooting sporting clays) and even going hunting with me. Been building hot rods since I was 15 and she loves hanging with me in the garage, Except cold morning. She's a true sun bunny, hates the cold.

I wish that's the way mine had worked. Out , but she saw different & that the Grass would be greener on the other side...! Well , it appears it "isn't" ..! & Because of her actions, my, my kids and parents are/have been distraught.

It gets better each day, don't get me wrong, there's light at the end.of the tunnel

But it put alot of things in financial distress, my plans are "on-hold" back burner til.i bounce back.

See, this is why I am back at lifting, so it "doesn't$ re-enter.my mind to go & exterminate a fee that ought to be.

Keeping me grounded, & hell...! I even look a little better..!

Lol..! 30+ years my soulmate , married going 19 when she pulled the e ppo & lies , n stole . 3 kids and a brand new grandbaby in which my son will give her very "limited " time with because of this.. she wringer him too & his gal in the whole mess, and I apologise to ya guys . I'm not trying to be negative, in-fact I am a very upbeat /positive /outgoing Kat...! "From the MotorCity, of course..! "

It's debatable, and hasn't made me totally sour, nor a woman hater. But I don't think I'll get serious involved again.
I'm starting over now, and still kinda lost & struggling each day , but hear high & chest out "alway"..!

Cream rise's to the Top for a reason..!

~ MotorCity

 

[MotorCityMuscleMachine]

& [MENTION=1277]horsefli[/MENTION], that's "truly" awesome you've got it like that with your spouse, I sincerely hope it stays that way for yous.

It is a rarity, but that is the way I dreamt, life can be tough .

I worked alot, missed some (participate in some, but probably missed more chasing $$ to have nice stuff )

Awesome for you, sincerely..! MotorCity

 

[Mohawkmike]

Been married for over 15+ years, I never lost my freedom but I've al

 

[Rot-Iron66]

We are few and far between, to get the 30 years mark Rot, my wife and myself actually do almost everything together more like buds, from canoeing, all fishing types. shooting (got her into shooting sporting clays) and even going hunting with me. Been building hot rods since I was 15 and she loves hanging with me in the garage, Except cold morning. She's a true sun bunny, hates the cold.

Same here, train together 4/5 times a week, gun range and then out for drinks on weekends, then come back after picking up a bottle of Absolut or something and make drinks, watch horror movies, etc. Been together totally since 1983, seem to get even closer as we age. Being fit helps a lot at age 52...

 

[horsefli]

Same here, train together 4/5 times a week, gun range and then out for drinks on weekends, then come back after picking up a bottle of Absolut or something and make drinks, watch horror movies, etc. Been together totally since 1983, seem to get even closer as we age. Being fit helps a lot at age 52...

Hell yes, working out together as well, agreed!

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[MotorCityMuscleMachine]

Been married for over 15+ years, I never lost my freedom but I've al

She musta "snatched " the phone out if his hands..!

"Hey" what you dissin me with /all your internet buddies..?

Lol.

Give me that phone..!.

J/K brah... .! Ya alright...?.

..**** Women

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"Spanky"... Let's go, I see Darla coming

Motor

 

[blueskys06]

In her eyes you will always be the one who started the argument, always the one that's in a bad mood and she will never be wrong. .

THIS ALL FUCKIN DAY! Damn bro nail on the head

 

[Mohawkmike]

I've been married for over 15+ years and I've never lost my freedom so that's not the problem. The first 10 years were good I'm not going to lie, sure we fought but that's normal. The last 5+ years it was obvious we fought more and more. In her eyes I was always the one that was in a bad mood, always the one who started the arguments never her. She could never admit she was wrong. According to her I was/am always miserable and no one wants to be around me, in front of my kids she said she was going to divorce me. I was always the one to say I was sorry and apologize just to make peace even though at times I knew it wasn't my fault I just did it to make peace. Recently after having an argument I did some "soul searching " and realized that I've allowed her to "slowly take my balls away from me" and I got thought to myself if a marriage is supposed to be 50/50 Why was I always the one saying I'm sorry and apologizing for shit that wasn't my fault. I'm at that point where I can't stand the bitch..